And
finally in the fifth year – behold, a miracle! We experience growth. And what
growth it is! The Chinese Bamboo Tree grows 80 feet in just six weeks!
But let’s
be serious, does the Chinese Bamboo Tree really grow 80 feet in six weeks? Did
the Chinese Bamboo Tree lie dormant for four years only to grow exponentially
in the fifth? Or, was the little tree growing underground, developing a root
system strong enough to support its potential for outward growth in the fifth
year and beyond? The answer is, of course, obvious. Had the tree not developed
a strong unseen foundation it could not have sustained its life as it grew. The
same principle is true for people. People, who patiently toil towards
worthwhile dreams and goals, building strong character while overcoming
adversity and challenge, grow the strong internal foundation to handle success,
while get-rich- quickers and lottery winners usually are unable to sustain
unearned sudden wealth.
Had the
Chinese Bamboo Tree farmer dug up his little seed every year to see if it was
growing, he would have stunted the Chinese Bamboo tree’s growth as surely as a
caterpillar is doomed to a life on the ground if it is freed from its struggle
inside a cocoon prematurely. The struggle in the cocoon is what gives the
future butterfly the wing power to fly, just as tension against muscles as we
exercise strengthen our muscles, while muscles left alone will soon atrophy.
The Story of The Human
Potential Tree (aka You)
The Chinese Bamboo Tree is a perfect parable to our own experience
with personal growth and change (whether we are working on ourselves or
coaching others). It is never easy. It’s slow to show any progress. It’s frustrating
and unrewarding at times. But it is sooooo worth it….especially if we can be
patient and persistent.
The Challenge We Learn
from the Chinese Bamboo Tree
Can we
stay focused and continue to believe in what we are doing even when we don’t
see immediate results? In a culture driven by instant gratification – this is
our biggest challenge.
We often tell each other (and our children), remember to “Keep
trying! and NEVER give up!” The change may be slow – even invisible at times –
but suddenly, as in the case of the Chinese Bamboo Tree, we will surprise
ourselves. Keep your faith in this important work. We live in a quick-fix
society. We get frustrated if we have to wait more than 2 minutes for service
or a stop light to change. We want instant solutions to every complex problem
and every fractured relationship. In short – we want it all now! Maybe it`s
time to reflect on an old, old poem by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow that is as
true today as it was when he wrote it over 100 years ago: “The heights by great
men reached and kept, were not attained by sudden flight, but they, while their companions slept, toiled ever upward through the night.”
Final Lesson From The Chinese Bamboo Tree
Yet, all of this requires one thing – faith. The
growers of the Chinese Bamboo Tree have faith that if they keep watering and
fertilizing the ground, the tree will break through. Well, you must have the
same kind of faith in your bamboo tree, whether it is to run a successful
business, win a Pulitzer Prize, raise well-adjusted children, or what have you.
You must have faith that if you keep making the calls, honing your craft,
reading to your children, reaching out to your spouse or asking for donations,
that you too will see rapid growth in the future.
This is
the hard part for most of us. We get so excited about the idea that’s been
planted inside of us that we simply can’t wait for it to blossom. Therefore,
within days or weeks of the initial planting, we become discouraged and begin
to second guess ourselves, or worse, quit.
Sometimes,
in our doubt, we dig up our seed and plant it elsewhere, in hopes that it will
quickly rise in more fertile ground. We see this very often in people who
change jobs every year or so. We also see it in people who change organizations
and even spouses in the pursuit of greener pastures. More often than not, these
people are greatly disappointed when their Chinese bamboo tree doesn’t grow any
faster in the new location.
Other
times, people will water the ground for a time but then, quickly become
discouraged. They start to wonder if it’s worth all of the effort. This is
particularly true when they see their neighbors having success with other
trees. They start to think, “What am I doing trying to grow a Chinese bamboo
tree? If I had planted a lemon tree, I’d have a few lemons by now.” These are
the people who return to their old jobs and their old ways. They walk away from
their dream in exchange for a “sure thing.”
Sadly,
what they fail to realize is that pursuing your dream is a sure thing if you
just don’t give up. So long as you keep watering and fertilizing your dream, it
will come to fruition, just like the Chinese Bamboo Tree. It may take weeks. It
may take months. It may even take years, but eventually, the roots will take
hold and your Chinese bamboo tree will grow. And when it does, it will grow in
remarkable ways.
We’ve
seen this happen so many times. Henry Ford had to water his Chinese Bamboo Tree
through five business failures before he finally succeeded with the Ford Motor
Company. Another great bamboo grower was the legendary jockey Eddie Arcaro.
Arcaro lost his first 250 races as a jockey before going on to win 17 Triple
Crown races and 554 stakes races for total purse earnings of more than $30
million.
Well, you
have a Chinese Bamboo Tree inside of you just waiting to break through. So keep
watering and believing and you too will be flying high before you know it.
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